You should know this, Timothy, that in the last days there will be very difficult times. For people will love only themselves and their money. They will be boastful and proud, scoffing at God, disobedient to their parents, and ungrateful. They will consider nothing sacred. They will be unloving and unforgiving; they will slander others and have no self-control. They will be cruel and hate what is good. They will betray their friends, be reckless, be puffed up with pride, and love pleasure rather than God. They will act religious, but they will reject the power that could make them godly. Stay away from people like that! They are the kind who work their way into people’s homes and win the confidence of vulnerable women who are burdened with the guilt of sin and controlled by various desires. (Such women are forever following new teachings, but they are never able to understand the truth.) These teachers oppose the truth just as Jannes and Jambres opposed Moses. They have depraved minds and a counterfeit faith. But they won’t get away with this for long. Someday everyone will recognize what fools they are, just as with Jannes and Jambres.
2 Timothy 3:1-9 NLT
It’s always easier to drag someone down than to lift them up. That’s why friendships and relationships deeply influence us—we must choose wisely whom we allow into our inner circle. Those who are doing impactful work for God’s Kingdom often surround themselves with godly friends. As the saying goes, “Show me your friends, and I’ll show you your future.” While Jesus loves everyone, and Christians can befriend many, we can’t pull others up alone. Lifting someone up takes a team—if three people are pulling upward, the chances of lifting that friend increase significantly.
Paul reminds us that challenges will mark the last days, a time both he and we live in. He advised Timothy to steer clear of those who outwardly appear religious but lack true faith and godly character. Even today, people may use religion to project an image of godliness while living for themselves. While religious practices can bring structure, they can also foster pride and arrogance. True godliness comes from God alone, empowering us to live lives of humility, strength, forgiveness, leadership, and service. It’s His power that enables us to live with authenticity and purpose.
Are the closest people in your life those who truly love Jesus? If not, how can you grow some godly relationships in your life? How can you rely on God’s power more than anything else to transform your character
